Showing posts with label mindset. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mindset. Show all posts

Wednesday, 2 March 2016

The SKEPTIC and VULNERABILITY


By Heather de Wit – Founder of Inspiring South Africans – INSPIRING SOUTH AFRICANS


The Skeptic


The Skeptic - also spelt Sceptic - is generally any questioning attitude towards unempirical knowledge or opinions/beliefs stated as facts, a method of intellectual caution and suspended judgement.
Also an attitude of doubt regarding claims or a disposition to incredulity, that are taken for granted elsewhere. Skeptics may even doubt the reliability of their own senses.
Skepticism is often separated into categories related to morality - right or wrong - or religion - religious doubt -  or the nature of knowledge - there is no knowledge beyond how things appear.


Some definitions of the Skeptic

·         Philosophical skepticism is a systematic approach that questions the notion that absolutely certain knowledge is possible.
·         Classical philosophical skepticism derives from the 'Skeptikoi', a school who ‘asserted nothing’. 
·         Religious skepticism, on the other hand, is ‘doubt concerning basic religious principles, such as immortality, providence, and revelation’.
·         Scientific skepticism is about testing beliefs for reliability, by subjecting them to systematic investigation using the scientific method, to discover empirical evidence for them.
·         Legal skeptism is a branch of jurisprudence, an essence, a critique of the natural law theories and of the legal positivism.

Sometimes the word skeptic can be perceived as a rather harsh word and at other times it fully resonates. We move in and out of skepticism as human beings, driven by the senses, the heart or by the head.

Quite simply – when choose to assume the role of the skeptic, we don’t believe what we are hearing or seeing to be true, to be a fact, a reality and more especially when we are feeling vulnerable.

Vulnerability


The general perception of vulnerability is that it is weakness. However, it is absolutely at the core of fear, anxiety, shame and every emotion we experience and it is also the birthplace of love, belonging, of creativity, of faith.

We’re actually losing our capacity and tolerance for vulnerability, because joy actually becomes almost foreboding. It’s much easier to live a disappointed life, than to admit being vulnerable – We numb it out.

Vulnerability is the state of being open to injury, or appearing as if you are. It might be emotional, like admitting that you are in love with someone, who might only like you as a friend, or it can also be literal, like the vulnerability of a soccer goal that is unprotected by any defensive players.

Vulnerability refers to the inability of a system or a unit, to withstand the effects of a hostile environment.

A window of vulnerability - WoV - is a time frame within which defensive measures are diminished, compromised or lacking.


Social Vulnerability


Social vulnerability is one dimension of vulnerability to multiple stressors, the agent responsible for stress and shocks, including abuse, social exclusion and natural hazards.  Social vulnerability refers to the inability of people, organizations and societies to withstand adverse impacts from multiple stressors to which they are exposed. These impacts are due in part to characteristics inherent in social interactions, institutions, and systems of cultural values.


Cognitive Vulnerability


A cognitive vulnerability, in cognitive psychology, is an erroneous belief, a cognitive bias or pattern of thought that is believed to predispose the individual to psychological problems. It is in place before the symptoms of psychological disorders start to appear, after the individual encounters a stressful experience, the cognitive vulnerability shapes a maladaptive response that may lead to a psychological disorder.  

In psychopathology, cognitive vulnerability is constructed from schema models, hopelessness models and attachment theory. Attentional bias is one mechanism leading to faulty cognitive bias that leads to cognitive vulnerability. Allocating a danger level to a threat depends on the urgency or intensity of the threshold.

The World today


The reality today is that we are living in a very fast-paced world, with information streaming in at a phenomenal pace, via the Internet, mainstream Media and Social Media and so on, where we can very quickly and easily be swept into believing untruths and buy into unhealthy mindsets with convincing mind control techniques by all these and other mediums.

Many of us live in a culture where there is not enough, the big diverse divide is a reality, it’s not safe enough, we are not good enough, we are not extraordinary enough. Somehow an ordinary life has become synonymous with a meaningless life and we are missing what is most important, because we are on this journey we believe is extraordinary, not understanding that it is in the ordinary moments of our lives, where we can find the most joy !


How do we thrive on the planet as Skeptics and Vulnerable human beings ?


No quick or final answers here I’m afraid … a few thought to ponder on …

·         Don’t believe everything you see or read  
·         Research all you can before assuming it to be true or judging it
·         Tap into your intuition and inner genius
·         Listen to your inner child
·         Surround the situation with loving, positive energy
·         Surround yourself with people who are on the same mission and you are
·         Allow more joy, love and gratitude into your life
·         Stop, breathe listen









Saturday, 13 February 2016

That Branding word


By Heather de Wit – Founder of INSPIRING SOUTH AFRICANS


Self-Image – Identity > BRAND


We need to take a step back from time to time and ask ourselves whether we are truly living our Brand as an individual or as a collective brand / Business / Organization. 

  • What messages are we sending ‘out there’ ?
  • What are we trying to achieve ?
  •  Who is our target audience and are they effectively ‘hearing’ and ‘seeing’ us ?
  • Is what we are doing in our marketing endeavors working … or not ?


TRENDS and MARKETING


How do we choose the most effective tool to market ourselves as a Brand ?  

Seeing what’s hot and what’s not – Trends shift and come and go at an alarming pace and if we don’t observe and take positive action on those that are working, we could get left behind.

Resist all you like, but consistent marketing of intelligent content on the Social Media is key to staying ahead of the pack and keeping your presence as an Individual or as a Business alive and thriving.


THE HUMAN CONDITION ?


The human condition is defined as 'the characteristics, key events and situations, which compose the essentials of human existence, such as birth, growth, emotionality, aspiration, conflict and mortality.'

We are all in the process of transcending into something else all the time – moving constantly from one space to another, mentally in our heads and physically in our bodies.  We produce new cells in our bodies every few months - So that every few months we become ‘in matter’ something else entirely.

The same applies in principle to Business – always moving and seeking which best business practices, marketing ideas, concepts and technology are best to implement to achieve our goals and to win and succeed.


MINDSET MASTERY


Smart and honest marketing, which fully expresses your values, your message, true essence and principles, will convert and change the minds of prospects into buyers. 

Much can be ‘said’ and expressed in pictures – Pictures are a powerful medium to get your message across and out there – enables simple resonance across language and age. 

Mainstream businesses, educational institutions, online training and Non Profits, across genres, are embracing and utilizing Animated film and 2D 3D et al Film Ads to tell their story.


What are you doing to get You or your Business out there ?


 INSPIRINGSOUTH AFRICANS

Friday, 5 February 2016

Shapeshifting > Mindshifting > Downshifting


By Heather de Wit – Founder of INSPIRING SOUTH AFRICANS


SHAPESHIFTING


Shapeshifting has always fascinated me – A change of physical form, manifested as if by supernatural means.  We see this all the time today in fantasy and sci-fi movies, children’s literature and pop culture.

Mythology, folklore and modern fantasy fiction tell us that shapeshifting is the ability of a being to physically transform into another form or being, either as an inherent faculty of a mythological creature, or by means of magic – What fun !

The most common form of shape-shifting is Therianthropy - the transformation of a human being into an animal, or conversely of an animal into human form and sometimes, the transformation may be into a plant or object, or into another human form.

Why am I going here ? – To illustrate the possibility that we as human beings can transform ourselves into and be whomever we want, at any time, should we choose !


MINDSHIFTING


This is probably one of the biggest challenges facing us as human beings – To first have the desire to change our minds and then to do the work to shift the mind from preconceived beliefs, mind sets, ancestral history, conditioning into another reality or consciousness.  

It takes work - no buts … To rise and move out of our fears and comfort zones and to decide to change our minds – We can train and retrain our brains and our subconscious minds at any time – The sub conscious mind is the most powerful thing we all have and if we feed it right, magic happens.  

DOWNSHIFTING


We are living in exciting times, but the pace is overwhelmingly fast.  The Internet, TV, Mobiles, Movies, Social Media etc are available to all of us and, if we allow it -  it can consume us and many are addicted to their Mobiles and Social Media 24/7. Wherever I look, people are looking down (at their Mobiles) - instead of up, just in case they miss something ... 

If we don’t discipline ourselves and manage our time spent in these arenas efficiently, by focusing on things that really matter, we will find little time to step back and to see what’s really going on in our lives – To see what is and what’s not working.  

When you slow down and switch everything off, possibility peeps in …

Stop, breathe, listen …